EHCP Support for Parents

Practical EHCP help for UK parents who need clarity, evidence and a plan

EHCPs can feel overwhelming. One minute you are trying to explain your child’s needs, the next you are staring at forms, reports, school emails, professional wording, provision maps, review notes and phrases like “needs are being met” while quietly wondering if anyone has actually met your child.

ADHD in Practice offers practical EHCP support for parents who need help understanding the process, organising evidence, preparing for meetings, strengthening parent views, or working out what to do next.

This is not about fighting for the sake of fighting.

It is about teamwork, clarity and making sure your child’s needs are properly understood.

Whether you're applying for the first time, preparing for an annual review, or trying to work out what to do after a refusal — there is a tier of support here for every stage.

This support may help if:

  • you are wondering whether your child may need an EHCP

  • school says “needs are being met” but you disagree

  • your child has ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, emotional regulation difficulties or SEND needs

  • you are preparing to request an EHC needs assessment

  • you need help organising evidence

  • you are writing parent views

  • you have an EHCP annual review coming up

  • your child’s plan feels vague, weak or out of date

  • school meetings leave you feeling confused, rushed or fobbed off

  • you need someone to help you make sense of reports and professional language

Because let’s be honest: EHCP paperwork can sometimes feel like someone translated your child into council fog.

EHCP & Support Guidance: Tier 1: EHCP Clarity Consultation
£150.00

£150 | 75 minutes

For parents who do not know where to start

A focused EHCP and SEND consultation for parents who feel confused, overwhelmed or unsure whether their child may need an Education, Health and Care Plan.

This session helps you step back, look at the bigger picture and understand what may need to happen next.

What it includes

  • 75-minute online parent consultation

  • discussion of your child’s current needs

  • review of current school support

  • exploration of ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, emotional regulation, masking, school refusal or unmet SEND needs

  • identification of possible gaps in provision

  • guidance on what evidence may matter

  • questions to ask school

  • clear next steps after the session

This helps with

  • “Does my child need an EHCP?”

  • “Is school doing enough?”

  • “Can parents request an EHC needs assessment?”

  • “What evidence do I need?”

  • “What should I ask school next?”

  • “How do I explain what is happening at home?”

Best first step if you feel overwhelmed, unsure whether an EHCP may be needed, or need help understanding what to do next.

EHCP evidence review - Tier 2
£225.00

Document review + 60-minute parent consultation

For parents who have reports, emails or school paperwork but do not know what matters

The EHCP process often starts with a pile of paperwork and a sinking feeling.

You may have school emails, SEND support plans, behaviour logs, attendance concerns, dyslexia reports, ADHD or autism letters, professional reports, learning plans or notes from meetings — but no clear idea what actually helps your case.

An EHCP Evidence Review helps you organise what you already have, identify what is useful, spot what may be missing, and understand how the evidence links to your child’s needs.

This is not about throwing every document at school or the local authority and hoping something sticks.

It is about making the picture clearer.

This may help if:

  • you are preparing to request an EHC needs assessment

  • school says your child’s needs are being met, but you disagree

  • you have reports but do not know what they mean in practical terms

  • you are gathering evidence for an EHCP application

  • you are preparing for an annual review or SEND meeting

  • your child has ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, masking, emotional regulation difficulties or school refusal

  • you need help understanding what evidence shows unmet need

  • you feel lost in emails, reports and professional language

What is included:

  • review of up to 5 key documents before the session

  • 60-minute online parent consultation

  • identification of strengths in the evidence

  • identification of possible gaps or vague wording

  • discussion of your child’s needs across home and school

  • guidance on what to ask school for next

  • support understanding what evidence may matter most

  • short written summary of key points and suggested next steps

Documents may include:

  • school emails

  • SEND support plans

  • IEPs or ISPs

  • provision maps

  • behaviour logs

  • attendance records

  • dyslexia reports

  • ADHD or autism assessment letters

  • CAMHS, GP or paediatric letters

  • teacher comments

  • annual review paperwork

  • parent notes or timelines

You leave with:

  • a clearer understanding of what your evidence shows

  • a more organised picture of your child’s needs

  • possible gaps to follow up with school

  • questions to ask at the next meeting

  • practical next steps for EHCP, SEND support or school discussions

Best choice if:

You already have paperwork, but need help turning it into clear evidence rather than a digital mountain of SEND fog.

EHCP & Support Guidance -Tier 3
£350.00

Planning session + parent views structure + light draft review

For parents who need help explaining their child’s needs clearly

Parent views matter.

They are your chance to explain your child as a whole person — not just test scores, behaviour logs, missed targets or professional wording.

But writing parent views can feel overwhelming. You may worry about sounding too emotional, too angry, too vague, too detailed, or not “official” enough. You may know exactly what your child needs, but struggle to get it into clear wording.

Parent Views Support helps you organise your thoughts, describe your child’s strengths and needs, and explain the impact of ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, masking, emotional regulation or unmet SEND needs in a clear, parent-friendly way.

No professional fog.
No dramatic essay.
No pretending everything is fine when it absolutely is not.

This may help if:

  • you are writing parent views for an EHCP request

  • you are contributing to an EHC needs assessment

  • you are preparing for an EHCP annual review

  • you need to explain what home is really like

  • school says your child is fine, but home tells a different story

  • your child masks at school and collapses at home

  • you need help describing emotional regulation, anxiety, sensory needs or executive function difficulties

  • you want your child’s strengths included, not just their struggles

  • you need clear wording for school, SEND or local authority paperwork

What is included:

  • 60-minute parent planning session

  • discussion of your child’s strengths, needs and daily challenges

  • support organising your views into clear sections

  • parent views structure/template

  • prompts to help you describe home, school and wider impact

  • wording support around masking, emotional regulation, ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety or school refusal

  • one round of light review/commentary on your draft

We can help organise:

  • your child’s strengths and interests

  • learning needs

  • emotional and regulation needs

  • sensory needs

  • social communication or friendship difficulties

  • masking and after-school collapse

  • school refusal or attendance concerns

  • homework, routines and executive function difficulties

  • impact on family life

  • what support you believe is needed

You leave with:

  • a clear structure for your parent views

  • stronger wording

  • prompts to complete your draft

  • a clearer explanation of home and school impact

  • more confidence that your voice is included properly

Best choice if:

You need help saying what matters clearly, without turning your child’s story into a 14-page emotional crime scene with bullet points.

Annual Review Preparation - Tier 4
£250.00

Tier 4: EHCP Meeting Preparation

60-minute preparation session + personalised meeting notes - follow up

For parents preparing for an EHCP meeting, annual review or SEND discussion

EHCP and SEND meetings can move quickly.

There may be acronyms, timelines, professional opinions, vague promises, and someone saying “ordinarily available provision” as though that explains anything.

An EHCP Meeting Preparation session helps you go into the meeting clear, calm and prepared.

We organise your key concerns, identify what evidence to highlight, prepare questions to ask, and create wording for the moments where you may need to push back politely but firmly.

This support is for parents who do not want to leave another meeting thinking:

“I wish I had asked that.”

This may help if:

  • you have an EHCP annual review coming up

  • you are attending a SEND support review

  • you are preparing for an emergency review

  • you are discussing whether school support is enough

  • the EHCP wording feels vague or weak

  • outcomes or provision do not match your child’s needs

  • your child is struggling with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, masking, emotional regulation or school refusal

  • you are worried about being rushed, dismissed or fobbed off

  • you need help preparing clear questions and next steps

What is included:

  • 60-minute online parent preparation session

  • discussion of the purpose of the meeting

  • review of your key concerns

  • identification of evidence to highlight

  • preparation of questions to ask

  • wording for tricky moments

  • support identifying what needs recording in the meeting

  • personalised meeting notes or script points

  • short follow-up summary after the session

We can prepare wording around:

  • unmet SEND needs

  • unclear or vague provision

  • emotional regulation and behaviour concerns

  • masking and after-school collapse

  • school refusal or attendance difficulties

  • reasonable adjustments

  • support that is promised but not happening

  • what needs to change

  • what should be reviewed next

You leave with:

  • a clear meeting plan

  • key points to raise

  • questions to ask

  • calm wording for difficult moments

  • next steps to request

  • more confidence advocating for your child

  • less chance of being pulled off track by meeting waffle

Best choice if:

You have an EHCP, SEND or school meeting coming up and want to walk in prepared, not armed with panic and seven half-remembered points from the car park.

Best for: parents who do not want to leave the annual review thinking, “I wish I had said that.”

EHCP Refusal, Pushback or “What Now?” Support
from £595.00

Tier 5: Ongoing EHCP & SEND Support

From £595 | 3-session package

From £895 | 6-session package

For families who need joined-up support over time

Sometimes one session is not enough.

If your child’s needs are complex, school communication is difficult, paperwork is building up, meetings keep happening, or home and school are seeing completely different versions of your child, you may need more sustained support.

Ongoing EHCP & SEND Support gives you practical guidance over time, helping you stay organised, prepared and focused through the messy middle.

This is for families who need help connecting the dots across home, school, behaviour, emotional regulation, evidence, EHCP paperwork and meetings.

Not another quick fix.
Not a vague “keep me updated.”
Proper joined-up thinking.

This may help if:

  • everything feels stuck across home and school

  • school says needs are being met, but your child is still struggling

  • your child has ADHD, autism, dyslexia, anxiety, emotional regulation difficulties, masking or school refusal

  • you are preparing for an EHCP request or annual review

  • you have several reports or professionals involved

  • meetings keep happening but little changes

  • you need help organising evidence over time

  • you want support preparing for school conversations

  • you feel overwhelmed by the process and need a clearer plan

3-session package: £595

Best for focused EHCP or SEND support over a short period

Includes:

  • 3 x 60-minute parent support sessions

  • review of key evidence and documents

  • support organising concerns

  • preparation for school or EHCP conversations

  • guidance on questions to ask and next steps

  • between-session email guidance within agreed limits

  • practical action plan

This package is useful if you need help preparing for a specific EHCP stage, SEND meeting, evidence review or school conversation.

6-session package: £895

Best for more complex or ongoing EHCP and SEND support

Includes:

  • 6 x 60-minute parent support sessions

  • deeper review of home, school and evidence

  • support with parent views, meeting preparation and next steps

  • strategy planning across home and school

  • help identifying patterns of need

  • review of school communication and provision concerns

  • between-session email guidance within agreed limits

  • practical action plan developed over time

This package is useful if your child’s needs are complex, several issues are happening at once, or you need ongoing guidance across meetings, evidence and home/school support.

Support may include:

  • parent coaching

  • EHCP evidence organisation

  • parent views support

  • annual review preparation

  • SEND meeting preparation

  • professional report review

  • school communication planning

  • behaviour and regulation planning

  • support identifying unmet needs

  • practical next-step planning

You may leave with:

  • a clearer evidence picture

  • organised next steps

  • stronger parent wording

  • better meeting preparation

  • more confidence speaking with school

  • a practical plan across home and school

  • reduced overwhelm around the EHCP/SEND process

Best choice if:

Everything feels tangled across home, school, paperwork and meetings, and you need ongoing support rather than another one-off conversation that ends with “let’s see how it goes.”

EHCP Meetings and Exclusion or Behaviour Meeting & Support Script
from £95.00

Navigate the EHCP process with ease and confidence using our specialised support scripts designed to advocate for your child's needs in education.

The questions to ask the ones that are hardest to dismiss. The ones that require a specific answer. The ones that move the conversation forward rather than allowing it to go in circles.

How to handle the most likely pushback because they will say something. "We don't have the budget." "They're fine in school." "Let's monitor the situation." "They don't meet the threshold." For each one — what to say next.

What to ask for before you leave the room: Written agreement. Named person responsible. Specific timescale. Next steps confirmed because a meeting with no written outcome is a meeting that never happened.

A closing statement is something that confirms what has been agreed, signals that you will follow up in writing, and closes the meeting professionally without burning any bridges you may need later.

Important note

This is parent support, preparation and guidance. It is not legal advice. If your situation requires legal advice, tribunal representation or formal legal guidance, you may need to speak to a qualified SEND solicitor or specialist legal service.